Words&Dirt

“Thinking back now, I can see we were just at that age when we knew a few things about ourselves––about who we were, how we were different from our guardians, from the people outside––but hadn’t yet understood what any of it meant.  I’m sure somewhere in your childhood, you too had an experience like ours that day; similar if not in the actual details, then inside, in the feelings.  Because it doesn’t really matter how well your guardians try to prepare you: all the talks, videos, discussions, warnings, none of that can really bring it home.  Not when you’re eight years old, and you’re all together in a place like Hailsham; when you’ve got guardians like the ones we had; when the gardeners and the delivery men joke and laugh with you and call you ‘sweetheart.’

All the same, some of it must go in somewhere.  It must go in, because by the time a moment like that comes along, there’s a part of you that’s been waiting.  Maybe from as early as when you’re five or six, there’s been a whisper going at the back of your head, saying: ‘One day, maybe not so long from now, you’ll get to know how it feels.’  So you’re waiting, even if you don’t quite know it, waiting for the moment when you realise that you really are different to them; that there are people out there, like Madame, who don’t hate you or wish you any harm, but who nevertheless shudder at the very thought of you––of how you were brought into this world and why––and who dread the idea of your hand brushing against theirs.  The first time you glimpse yourself through the eyes of a person like that, it’s a cold moment.  It’s like walking past a mirror you’ve walked past every day of your life, and suddenly it shows you something else, something troubling and strange.”

––Never Let Me Go, by Kazuo Ishiguro, pg. 36